Roleplay for Couples: Engage your Sexual Fantasies | K-Y

Roleplay for Couples: Engage your Sexual Fantasies | K-Y

Role play is something that many couples enjoy - finding that it adds excitement and extra arousal to the bedroom. Yet, while many of us are tempted by the idea of playing sexy dress-up, it can be a subject that we find hard to broach with our partner for fear that they won't feel the same. If you're nervous about getting started, here are four tips to help add a new element to your bedroom routine.

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How to Roleplay With Your Partner

When you are about to roleplay with your partner, make sure that you are both on the same page before you get started. While roleplaying can allow you to explore dark fantasies safely, you have to make sure that you are in a secure place when doing so. Finding the boundaries between yourself and your partner is crucial in this regard. Read on now for our tips on how to successfully roleplay with your partner!

Figure Out Your Sexual Fantasy Idea

Whether it’s pretending to be strangers meeting up for the first time or playing doctor and patient, finding the right fantasy for you and your partner can help ease you into your first time. By choosing a scenario that is familiar to you both, it gives you an idea of what to say and how to act without any complications.

How to Role Play in Sex: Communicate With Your Partner

You may find it a little embarrassing at first, but talking about your sexual fantasies is a great way to improve physical intimacy with your partner. Starting an open and frank discussion will allow both of you to learn about each other’s needs while identifying your own desires.

Listening to your partner’s wishes and concerns is a great way to solidify a firm foundation of trust and mutual respect. Remember that any new experiences you bring into the bedroom with your partner need to be mutually agreed upon and should not feel pressured to engage in specific types of activity.

Enjoy Yourself With Sex Roleplay Ideas

Once you've discussed bringing role-play into your love life, it is time to get started. If you have first-time jitters then start small and remember that roleplay is all about having fun with one another. Don't take it too seriously, to begin with, and focus on enjoying yourself and experimenting with different personas and outfits.

That said, you'll only get out of this experience what you put in so make sure you commit yourself to the role you're playing. It is OK to break character or feel nervous, make sure to acknowledge the discomfort with your partner and pick back up where you left off.

Fun Roleplay Ideas: Try Dressing Up

If you really want to get into the spirit of things when you are engaging in roleplay for couples, then dressing up can make a big difference. By physically wearing the clothes of, say, a sexy nurse, or a delivery driver, you can make the fantasy feel more real — and, by extension, even more erotic. Try heading to a local costume or sex shop to find the perfect costume for both of you.

A List of Fun Roleplay Ideas During Sex

You might be reading this list and wondering to yourself: which roleplay ideas will get my juices flowing? If you are not feeling particularly inspired, there’s no need to worry as we have got you completely covered. Couples role play ideas can include:

     Best Friends Discovering They’re in Love

     Strangers Meeting at a Hotel Bar

     Sexy Maid Coming in To Clean The Hotel Room

     Pizza Delivery But You Don’t Have Any Cash…

     Happy Ending with the Massage Therapist

     Photographer and Model Getting To Know Each Other

     Casting Couch

     Boss Telling Off Their Employee

Try a couple of these role-play ideas and see where your imagination leads you. When playing together with your partner, there are no bad ideas. And don’t be afraid to make jokes. A couple that laughs together oftentimes has better sex together.

Couples Playing With Each Other Incorporate Foreplay

Another great tip to bear in mind when experimenting with role-play is that it doesn't just have to be used in the main event. You can incorporate roleplay as a crucial part of the  If you want to get your partner in the mood then why not dress up and surprise them as part of your foreplay? Shaking things up in the bedroom can be exciting, and present you and your partner an opportunity to learn one another's desires.

Waiting for them to come home from work dressed up is sure to give them a pleasant surprise, but you can also send hints of what you’re up to by sending a few seductive pictures on your phone. This is a great way to increase desire and will make the concept of role-playing a little less daunting when it comes down to business.

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